Herpes Dating

Thanks to herpes dating sites, many single women with herpes now find it easier to find a date online and meet other people with the viral disease. Dating someone also with herpes means they don't have to feel anxious and to go through the ordeal of having to tell the truth about the disease.

Women with herpes do date people who aren't infected but they are always embarrassed and worried. Their main concerns are how and when to tell their partners that they have herpes. They have a fear of being rejected. If they keep getting rejections, they get discouraged and feel that dating with herpes is an obstruction.

Herpes Dating Advice

Be well informed.

People have negative associations toward someone with herpes. One of the best things to do is find out everything you can about it. When you are knowledgeable, have all the information, know the risk and protection, you will feel more confident to talk about it and answer his questions.

How to tell your date that you have herpes?

It's never easy to be frank and forthright. But out of moral responsibility, you must do it. With the knowledge and information that you have acquired, you must make him understand about the disease. Try to pick a time when both of you are in a relaxed state of mind. Choose a place where you can talk comfortably without interruptions.

When is the right time to tell your partner you have herpes?

After about two or three dates, you can tell if your relationship with your partner is getting closer. Tell him before you go any further. The worst thing that will happen is he will reject you after knowing the truth. If he does care and understand, he will accept you the way you are.

If you put it off and wait, it will become more difficult especially if you begin to get very fond of him. But you must do it before you get intimate. Otherwise he might feel that you have betrayed him.

Practice good personal hygiene.

Since herpes is infectious, practice good personal hygiene to reduce the risk of infecting your partner and other people. Use gloves when you are touching your lesions and wash your hands thoroughly. Ensure that you use condom and dental dam whenever you make love. Whenever you have your outbreaks, avoid act of intimacy.

Develop emotional and mental strength.

When it comes to herpes and dating, you will face rejections. Develop your emotional and mental strength so that you won't feel bad, disappointed and disheartened. Don't give up because there is always someone out there who won't mind dating a person with herpes. And don't get angry with yourself or toward others. It's just a disease and is manageable.

Ask your physician for treatment.

Talk to your physician and ask him for treatment to manage your herpes. Your doctor will recommend a medication to help reduce the occurrence of outbreaks and also as prevention from transmitting the disease.

Connect with people with herpes on herpes dating sites.

If you just don't want to go through the trouble of having to explain yourself and feel rejected, connect with others and find your date on herpes dating websites. There are also chat rooms, forums and communities where herpes people meet online.

Herpes Dating Advice - When Your Date Has Herpes

What if you are healthy and your date tells you that he has herpes? If you do like him a lot and would like to get serious but don't know much except what you've heard, ask him to explain it to you. If you wonder why he had not told you earlier, understand that it is very difficult to talk about it. He has to build the courage and take the risk of losing you.

Try to feel glad that he's telling you instead of keeping it silent and passing the virus to you without your knowledge. Don't reject him because of his disease. Do a research and find out more about it so that you will feel secure and take preventive measures.

Some people aren't honest and don't reveal it. By the time you find out, it's too late. Once you have it, you live with it forever. So it's wise that you don't end up in bed with someone without first having a blood test. Of course it might sound like you are paranoid if you ask your date to go for a test. But if he is honest and free from any STD, he will agree.

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