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Fear of Intimacy

I have recently been investigating Emotional Intimacy online, because I am a 32 year old woman and have never had a boyfriend. and have only had 5 dates. I feel like I don't want to be with anyone, and when I meet a guy, I immediately get anxious, and I am convinced the guy does not want a relationship with me. I usually end up rushing into sex with him, then I feel this constant tension, waiting for the other shoe to drop- I get dumped. This exact situation has happened twice- and I feel like I am completely done with dating and relationships.

I want to be ok with being alone, but I keep being focused on the persons who left me and found other people to be with. How do I just forget the past and let go?

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Oct 16, 2015
by: Anonymous

There are so many friends who belong from best essay writing or your college come to our life but some of them are very important and we cant forget them. We want to spend our all time with them.

Feb 18, 2011
Focusing on the present and future
by: Anonymous

The best way to let go of the past is to focus on the present and the future by-

-Keeping busy with work

-Finding & then focusing on what your passionate about in life, it could be a new job in an industry you've always wanted to work in or it could be a new hobby.

-Outline goals that you would love to achieve that don't have anything to do with a man but have everything to do with the very special and unique person that is YOU xo

Focusing more energy into yourself, your career, financial goals etc is a great way to let go of the past and is a great start to getting excited about where you want to be in the future & any future man that comes into your life can just be the icing on the cake. Love and best wishes xoxo

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