Dating a Married Man

Dating a married man is a very, very bad idea for a wide range of reasons. If you are thinking of dating married men, think carefully about the possible consequences before making your decision. If you are already dating one, here are some advice and good reasons on why you should think about ending that relationship as soon as possible.

No Happy Ending

Dating married men very rarely ends well for the mistress. Some researches done showed that less than 3% of husbands who cheat on their wives end up divorcing their wife and marrying their mistress. If you're dating a married man and waiting for him to divorce his wife and marry you, just keep in mind that the odds are stacked heavily against you.

Come to think of it, why would a married man divorce his wife and marry his mistress? Right now, he's getting the best of both worlds. He's got a wife to raise his kids, keep his home, and provide emotional support-and, at the same time, he's also got a young, beautiful mistress for sex and love. Why force himself to choose between the two women when he doesn't have to? Having both a wife and a mistress simultaneously has worked out well so far, after all.

Wasted Time

Although the affair may last for years, husbands rarely leave their wives for their mistresses in the end. Married men have been known to string along their mistress for decades. How much time and love are you willing you waste dating a married man who isn't available, and won't commit to being with you?

The longer you're dating a married man, the longer you're waiting and putting off getting married, having children, starting a home, and raising a family. If these things are important to you, stop dating married men and start looking for someone else willing and able to be with you the rest of your life.

Untrustworthy Men

Trust is one of the key building blocks of love, relationships, and marriage. When you're dating married men, you're dating people who aren't trustworthy. You're dating liars.

Your boyfriend has betrayed his wife's trust, deceived her, lied to her, and don't really have a problem with it. How do you know he won't do the same thing to you eventually? How do you know he's not doing it already?

Other Women

Dating married men is dating someone who's lying to and cheating on their wife with you. Given that fact, what in the world makes you think that he isn't cheating on you as well? He may very well have other lovers besides you. It is not uncommon at all for unfaithful husbands to have several mistresses simultaneously, none of which know about each other.

Jealous Wives

Dating married men is dangerous.

History is full of jealous, angry wives who have harmed, attacked, and even killed their husbands' mistresses. Upon discovering that their husbands are cheating on them, one of a wife's first emotional reactions is to focus their pain and rage at their husband's mistress.

This may not seem logical. One would assume a betrayed wife would be furious with her husband, and she is. But she's even more furious with you. She loves her husband, after all, but barely even knows you. Worse, you're considered a home wrecker, a threat to her, her husband, her marriage, her family, her home, and her happiness. And her first, immediate instinct will be to remove that threat.

A betrayed wife may not necessarily murder you, but she will almost certainly go on the offensive. You might find your scandal broadcast to the world, your job threatened, or your property vandalized. If you're considering dating a married man, just keep this in mind as the worst-case scenario that could happen to you if things go horribly wrong.

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