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Too Comfortable Being Single

by Tiffany
(Dallas, Tx)

4 years ago I became single when I was deployed and my husband decided to send me an e-mail telling me that I was too busy with my life so he wanted a divorce. I divorced him as soon as I got home state side and have been single ever since we did not have any children so I never saw him again, but I did have two kids from a previous marriage.

When I returned home I left the military and got right into school and finished my bachelors in 3 years so you can see that I had no time for dating or anything else for that matter.


Now that I have decided to go back to school again form my second bachelors I am starting to think that I am more afraid to date and find other things to occupy my time.


I miss having someone else to talk to and now my children are teenagers I am afraid I may be alone forever now, but I just keep taking a full force on my career and seeking that for my excuse not to go on dates.


I went on a date one time and all I could think about was when is this going to end so I can go back to studying or I was thinking about what else I could write in a paper that I had due in 8 weeks.


Is it possible to get too comfortable with the single life?