Long Distance Relationships




For many years, couples have questioned whether long distance relationships could stand the test of time. Some couples have had great success at making this type of relationship last for a very long time. Unfortunately, some have fizzled out quickly once distance came between them.

There is no real secret to making a long distance love last, it just depends upon the people involved and how much they are determined to make it last. Two main factors that may be required in order for a long distance romance to be a success are trust and communication.


Trust plays a huge part in this type of relationship. The couple needs to have just as much trust between them as they would if they did not reside miles away from each other. It is a given fact that both the man and the woman will come into contact with members of the opposite sex when their mate is not around.


Having complete trust in each other should mean there are no fears of infidelity no matter who their loved one comes into contact with. Sometimes this trust can be challenged when the mate is not close by to give strength in helping to fight the temptation of cheating. If there are any questions about trust, the relationship may not be genuine.


This is also where communication steps in to support a long distance love relationship. Even if a man and a woman are not able to see each other frequently, communicating frequently throughout the day, every day, can help the relationship to remain more secure. If a man and a woman only speak to each other occasionally, they are more likely to grow apart and start losing interest in each other.


Communication is important in any relationship, but it can make or break a long distance relationship. Basically, if a long distance couple does not communicate in some form or another often, it cannot be considered a true relationship to begin with.


Even if trust and communication is not an issue in a long distance relationship, it can still be quite difficult to maintain. If frequent in person visits with each other are not possible, the couple must try to at least see each other on occasion. Planning monthly weekend visits can make this type of relationship more bearable. These visits give each partner something to look forward to and can help keep the spark going in the relationship. This is also a way to help build both trust and communication in the relationship.


There really is no way to know for sure if a long distance relationship can survive and go on to be long term. It all depends upon the couple. If love is genuine, trust in unquestionable, and communication is limitless, there is a very good chance that the relationship can be worthwhile.


But, consider the distance between you and accept that there may be times when your heart aches to see your partner. All relationships require a lot of hard work from both the man and the woman in order to last a lifetime. In a long distance relationship, this hard work will be multiplied many times, but the rewards of this relationship may be multiplied as well.




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